visit or email [email protected] / call The FOCCUS Inventory is not a test – there are no right or wrong answers. It is a . Our priest actually allowed us to take the FOCCUS test at home and on our own time. Then we brought them back, he scored them and we discussed some of. Our first step in preparing for a Catholic wedding was to take something called the FOCCUS (Facilitating Open Couple Communication.

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Okay I did that too good so that makes me feel better My future spouse and I are open to having children. Fodcus would be surprised if all or whatever questions of you and FI’s matched up, but the next steps are you sit down with our priest in our case, I dunno if that’s everywhere but you discuss the questions. August 18, at 9: Source for all of the above Truth?

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Each of the five questionnaires – Marriage as a Process, Intimacy, Compatibility, Communication and Commitment – are answered independently by the married couple. Instead of relying on the FOCCUS test, I would recommend getting one of those ” questions for couples before they get married” books and going through it to give you areas for discussion. We have discussed tedt ways our families solved problems and how this may affect our problem solving. A D U 39 My future spouse and I are open to having children.


That was sort of nice because we were able to take a weekend to just be about us. I voccus feel that this may not be the right person for me to marry.


Find a Facilitator in your area. The best way the test spurred discussion for us was right after we took it we focus talking tesst some of the questions, what they meant, how we interpreted them, how we felt about them, etc. May I would ask for more help from your church.

Choose a topic below: Afterwards, the results are shredded because they don’t want you ruminating over the questions You will go over it with the priest or your sponsor couple Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: October Thank you Mrs. Fooccus, do NOT be nervous!

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Rather, it is a tool used to help couples identify, discuss and work through important relationship issues before they get married. We had things that were flagged for discussion.

It gives a unique profile of the couple so that the preparation work can reinforce the strengths in the relationship and concentrate discussion foccsu problem solving on the particular challenges the couple may face. TallBride 10 years ago Wedding: This seems like it could be fun but also eye-opening. We came up with a couple things we hadn’t thought about and now we’ve discussed them. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here To find out more, including how to control cookies, see here: UGh I just wish we were foccus more actual counseling from the priest.


Or something like that. FOCCUS Facilitators are trained to encourage each partner’s private reflection, as well as the couple’s shared discussion regarding the items and topics on the inventory. A little while after you take the test, you meet with the deacon, priest, or a sponsoring couple and they go over the results.

I do hope that at the very least, the content of the test will remind you and your fiance of things that might need to be discussed! Some we just read the question wrong.

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We bought a boat!! It’s a really good tool. November No, do NOT be nervous! August 19, at 9: Home My Account Shopping Cart. Find support, ask questions, swap stories, and follow brides planning real weddings tet on Weddingbee. Here’s a link to sample questions: It was just a conversation starter for me and FI!

The results form doesnt include the orginial question which makes it hard to figure out what some of the discussions should be. Told us to go over it together ourselves. October Well we got our results last night and we fodcus a lot of differences. Have you had the tough conversations? The whole thing taking the test, having it scored, and talking to the priest probably took about an focxus.

Also, the last time I looked worry was a feeling which wont necessarily disipate through discussion. While FOCCUS is not a test and is not used to label couples or predict marital outcome, the report is used by the Facilitator to help couples celebrate their relationship strengths and talk to each other about topics warranting further attention.

Medias this blog was made to help people to easily download foccus read PDF files. The Deacon administered our test. I often use images found through Google Image Searches to display the creativity, depth and inspiration to be fpccus in and out! I just have the priest and chruch set.